They're building homes across the street. Still. Every day. Forever.

It begins at seven when my alarm clock, a tractor, goes off. BEEP, BEEP, BEEP, BEEP.

Did you know that tractors beep when they move? I myself did not. They're like Fisher-Price toys from hell.

I also didn't realize how much shouting goes into a house. The foreman, great grandson of Bam-Bam, gives direction over the saw blades.

"Leo ... Leo! Hey, LEO! It's over there ... No, there... LEO!..."

As a man, I am supposed to know about erection. Of houses. But for some reason I never understood drill bits or power saws or what are those things ... jobs. I'm the guy who gets so confused in Home Depot that a clerk finds him cowering in the fetal position behind the two-by-fours...

"It's going to be all right, sir. Just slow down and tell me how long you've been lost."

I can't even assemble boxed furniture without drawing blood. If I were in charge across the street, the whole crew would be huddled around a giant foldout paper.

"Okay, insert Part D into Hole G. Has anyone seen Part D? They forgot to include Part D, didn't they? I knew it!"

Then someone would hawk up a loogie.

Fortunately, the homes across the street are in better hands. Well, if you don't mind living in a domino. Tract homes are getting so scrunched together that when people say they've got a yard, they mean it literally -- three feet.

"Seven hundred grand, you say? I see ... How much for a house where I don't hear the neighbors peeing?"

It's a good thing Frank Lloyd Wright is dead, because he would definitely commit suicide.

The plot across the street used to be a meadow. For you youngsters, that's a place for a thing called trees. The problem with tract houses is that they hardly ever turn back into meadows again. So it goes.

Construction guys aren't big on the concept of Other. They have no problem discussing personal issues in the middle of traffic.

"Oh, yeah?! Well, if you didn't bleep up the windows, then we wouldn't bleepin' be having this conversation."

"Bleep off."

"Why don't you -- " hawking up a loogie -- "while you're looking for a JOB."

Not a model exit review.

Leo, thank God, was not fired. He continues to do an excellent job ignoring the foreman. Leo drywalls to the beat of his own drummer, pausing to rub (for good luck) his Buddha belly. Which begs a question: How does one labor in the sun all day and still manage a belly? How much beer does that take?

Don't get me wrong. I hate these men. I do. But somehow I will miss them when they're gone. All the yelling and thumping and cursing have come to represent ... progress. No matter how lost I get in the Home Depot of life, they will be here at seven sharp to wake me up.

"LEO! It's over there. No, THERE. Leo..."

That must be what it's like on your deathbed -- you miss even the people you don't like. Sometimes I get choked up thinking about it. Excuse me while I hawk up a loogie.

At the park I found soccer, a fierce competition between the Pipsqueaks and the Smallfries. The Pipsqueaks were running in circles just as fast as the Smallfries, and progress toward either goal was imminent.

I was weak with too cute ... need help when a father yelled from the sideline, "Get your butt upfield, Josh. What are you thinking?"

Josh looked over with saucer eyes, afraid to ask what "upfield" meant.

While Josh's father smoldered from the ears, the enemy scored a goal -- well, a pass that just kept going -- and a hundred little humans piled on the shooter. You had never seen the like. It was Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, and a ten-foot tadpole wrapped into one.

As the bodies untangled, Angry Dad blew up. "That was your man, Josh. Your man! Why weren't you covering your man?"

The players ran around trying to get the excitement off, and the last thing you could find there was a man. Josh limped back to center field, considering his shoelaces. He wasn't really injured; he just wanted respite from The Voice. So it goes.

And so it went throughout the game. Josh's father dogged him up and down the field, noting errors so he could chart them later. He yelled and cursed and made his wife bury herself in an upside-down book. For Angry Dad the fate of the universe hung on the performance of one toe-headed Earthling boy named Josh. I could see the Vogons watching from their spaceship...

"It's not looking good, commander. Josh didn't cover his man."

In every sport you find this dad with defective perspective. He pushes his children like every play foreshadows success on driver's tests, SATs, bar exams. And he badly needs Little League glasses, a corrective lens that I am working on to remind Angry Dads that it's only a fricken game!

Right now a football dad is in court getting his assets kicked for striking a referee. He got so carried away that he chased the poor guy past thirty gawking 12-year-olds. As you know, referees are not the stoutest men. They only become referees because they weren't tough enough for the chess club.

I wanted to rush in and save Josh from the madness, my cape waving in the wind. I would pull him aside and say, "Go with the limp, man. Turn it into something fantastic. Let 'em name the disease after you."

Even if I could address the boy, he still had to drive home with that irate fan who was his father. Josh would be lectured and I-told-you-so'd and forced to review an itemized list. Then his dad would drive to the ice cream parlor, where they would watch the winning team eat their cones.

I know Josh. I grew up in a world where losing meant no ice cream. I felt that weight as I ran onto the field. I faked the same limp. It didn't give me an edge in the real world, either; it gave me a facial tic.

Dads, if you did not sign with the Yankees the way you intended, let it go. Don't take a second run through your child. Do like the other dads and mock the men who did make the team. AYSO trophies represent the tiniest fraction of life. I've got 12 rusting in my garage, and not one was there when I had my nervous breakdown.

Work with your kids. Teach them to sweat. Break out the rubber cones even. But when they've had enough, say amen. We'll all be dead in a hundred years, championships and all. If your child is healthy enough to run in circles with the others, jump for joy. If he scores on the wrong goal in overtime, make him a writer.

And remember, there's only one thing worse than the withdrawal of love, and that is the withdrawal of ice cream.